tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32669046.post84647743704903694..comments2023-04-01T15:23:35.778+01:00Comments on De-blog: Land of Confusion #biweek #bivisibilityDebbie McGowanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18238044171968552477noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32669046.post-60928222526208802872017-09-20T21:53:16.883+01:002017-09-20T21:53:16.883+01:00I like all cheese. Asking me to choose a cheese an...I like all cheese. Asking me to choose a cheese and only ever eat that particular cheese for the rest of my life simply to tick one of your boxes.....Nah. Just let us all be, and just because you only see me eating cheddar does not mean a thing about my cheese orientation. There is absolutely no need for anyone to see the contents of my fridge to satisfy their curiosity about my cheese stash.Dawn Sisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18245541501926988739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32669046.post-2320648810341531962017-09-20T02:23:18.501+01:002017-09-20T02:23:18.501+01:00I've been accused of switching teams,(I was ma...I've been accused of switching teams,(I was married to a man for thirteen years) and have been told that I can't be monogamous to anyone because I'm pansexual. No, I didn't switch teams. I play(ed) for all sides equally, and yes, I can most certainly be/ am monogamous. I adore my spouse and would never consider hurting her. To say otherwise discounts me and her and the strength of our relationship. Being married while bi/pan doesn't mean you can't look and admire and think...hetero couples look, admire, and think too. It means I respect, love, and honor her above all others and will always stand with her. I promised her that I would, and I keep my promises. For me, it's the Naw, honey, I'm good principle...to her I will stay true.jlgfellershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06893347110404780281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32669046.post-7747425755226946742017-09-20T00:00:44.828+01:002017-09-20T00:00:44.828+01:00Yep. Co-sign on all of this. Gotta prove both that...Yep. Co-sign on all of this. Gotta prove both that you *really* are bi via relationship history, but also have to prove you're monogamous (and thus have "picked a side" even when you haven't). Oh, and don't forget that once you've said those two words, some self-righteous so-and-so will invariably tell you that your identity is inherently transphobic.<br /><br />But I will never, ever, ever go back in the closet just to appease someone else.AM Leibowitzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04209724829228883552noreply@blogger.com