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So…I had a different post planned for Bi Visibility Day , but you know what? There’s been a distinct shortage of bi women (or just ‘not men’, really) in most of the stuff I’ve seen, including my own posts—I’ll hold my hands up to that. Therefore, I’m rounding off the week with Charlie (aka Charlotte Davenport) from the Hiding Behind The Couch series . But first… A.M. Leibowitz  (author/reviewer/blogger/BiCast presenter and more) has compiled an excellent (and ongoing) list of bi authors, bloggers, books and resources, which you can find here:  amleibowitz.com/2017/09/22/the-big-bilist-awesome-bi-writers-books-and-resources/ . They also wrote some awesome #BiWeek flash fiction (and it includes non-male characters, yay!). You can (and definitely should) read it on their blog (five stories in all), plus there's a giveaway. And you can still buy my bi books at half-price/enter a giveaway here:  beatentrackpublishing.com/bivisibility  (last day today). Link bac...

When my dearest husband read the very first draft of Hiding Behind The Couch (Season One), he must’ve misread ‘Kris’ as ‘Kenny’, because in the ten years since—during which he’s read the first draft of every single story—he’s come up with at least a hundred ways to kill Kris. My favourites include the morning Kris woke up and found all the bodies of his friends downstairs and realised he was completely and utterly alone (not sure how he died that time, to be honest, probably not murder), the multiple occasions he’s been run over by buses, and when he fell off a cliff for no reason whatsoever…there are times I wonder if I should just open a document and let Nige write the next instalment. I permit this indulgence, of course. Nige is my alpha reader (sometimes he pushes it and asks, “Don’t you mean alpha male?” Ha. ) He tells me he’s joking (about killing Kris, not the alpha male thing) and he’d have nothing left to do if I did follow through and send Kris off to Valhalla or wher...

Let's talk labels. What are they? Why do we need them? I know there will be those - even amongst my friends - with steam coming out their ears right about now, because I'm calling bullshit on the 'we don't need labels' argument. You think you don't need them? Good for you. But here's a thing that happened to me that might serve as a helpful example: A few years ago, when I was teaching in a high school, I called the National Union of Teachers for legal advice about a change to my employment contract. Receptionist: Are you a member? Me: No, I— Receptionist: I'm afraid we can't offer you any advice or support. The ATL might, though. Good luck. So I called the ATL (The Association of Teachers and Lecturers) and got the same response (I believe they've since changed their policy) other than they suggested I call the NASUWT (National Association of Schoolmasters [and] Union of Women Teachers - archaic, I know). I called the NASUWT, an...

It's Bisexual Awareness Week , so what better time to give you all a bit more info on the bisexual characters in my books? Before I go any further, I'll warn you this is an obscenely long post. At the end, I've listed the books that can be bought this week at discount price (50% – two of them are free) as part of Beaten Track Publishing's #biweek celebration . On we go... In case clarification is needed, the definition of 'bisexual' at work here is this: an identity marker that refers to the capacity to be attracted to people of more than one gender. It doesn't require someone to have had relationships with more than one gender, and if someone identifies as bisexual, it is not up for question or discussion. On a day-to-day basis, this causes lots of difficulties for bisexual people because their current relationship status is used as snapshot evidence to argue that they're really gay (if it's a same-gender relationship) or really straigh...

A bisexual top ten. :) I'm saving the best for the top spot, of course... 10. Vanessa Carlton (as if I haven't heard this piano riff a thousand times... ) 9. Fergie (Black-eyed Peas) 8. Amy Winehouse 7. Debbie Harry (Blondie) 6. David Bowie 5. Richard Fairbrass (Right Said Fred) 4. Lady Gaga 3. Billie Joe Armstrong (Green Day) 2. Brian Molko (Placebo) 1. Freddie Mercury (Queen)